Tired of passive, weak men? Let's meet!
db0956
Tulsa, Oklahoma | Mann Søker A Kvinne
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I am as nice of a guy as you'll ever meet, and I can carry on a good conversation with almost anyone, BUT...I'm not rich, I don't care for country music, I don't love your pets, and I have a beard. Those all seem to be dealbreakers here.....but maybe you're an exception.
I'm hard-working and trustworthy, reliable and honest, hard-headed, opinionated and confident, but not arrogant. I'm responsible and keep my word. I'm real, loyal, transparent, well-rounded, and love good 2-way conversation. My skin is thick and I'm comfortable in it, but I do have real feelings-they just don't control my life. I am very friendly, but don't try to fit in. I'm not a conformist, and not afraid of confrontation or speaking my mind when I need to. I never betray confidentiality. I'm a straight-shooter and brutally honest.
I try to treat others the way I want to be treated.I treat women like I want other men treating my daughters. If that's not good enough, then I don't know what is. I'm not interested in a one night stand. We need to just like each other first. How will you know unless you give me a chance?
I do not like arrogance, rudeness, gold diggers, or anyone who judges strictly by appearance. I am younger at 67 than a lot of men are at 57. I'm not perfect, but I don't suppose you are either. If you want to be liked for more than your looks, please do the same for me.
I'm not on here much due to a nearly total lack of response I get from G-rated questions and comments, by all the women who say they want a nice man, which is exactly what I am. If you have no interest in a 2-way conversation, don't reach out.
I'm looking for someone that I would really enjoy being with, and spend quality time with. There's a whole lot more to me than I can squeeze into a few more characters, and you won't offend me by asking anything.
I am not afraid to fall in love, but that is not my objective right now. Internet dating can be scary, especially for women, because there are so many predators and posers out there. I am not a player or a hustler. I am not interested in a one-night stand, but rather true friendship and companionship without pressure from either side. I like things simple and drama-free.
When it comes to girls, I'm old-fashioned. I will open the car door for you, and any other door if we are together. I will walk with you, not in front. I will hold your arm on stairs or a curb. I will walk you to your door and make sure you get home safely. I will be polite and respectful, and I will be nice. I will listen when you want to talk, and try to not talk over you. I will treat you like I want guys to treat my daughters. I also told my sons to treat girls like they would want other guys treating their sisters. When I am with a girl, I want her to feel safe with me. What I will NOT do is treat you like an object, and I won't tell you what you want to hear just to get a piece of you. ....BUT but please don't interpret me simply being nice and respectful to mean that I am falling for you. That takes time and a lot of talking.